I've been thinking about my buddy Richard, from that last post. One day we were hanging out at a bar in Reno (I don't add the NV suffix, because there is only one).

He told me he was engaged to be married. I was happy for him and we drank.

On the eve of his wedding he got very drunk, and went driving. He crashed his vehicle big time, and fortunately didn't hurt anyone, except himself.

I hooked up with him later, and he was in a full body cast. If you have never seen someone in that position, consider yourself blessed. He was lucky to be alive.

I asked him what happened and he responded with the saddest thing anyone has ever said to me. He said he was under endowed and was afraid his wife to be, would find him unacceptable.

OMG. This meant that they had never had sex, and he felt he was going to disappoint her big time. How fucking sad is that!

So he gets totally drunk on his pre-wedding night, and ruins his life. I don't know if the marriage ever happened, probably not.

That was the last time I saw him, as life moved on...